Sunday, April 18, 2010

Roots, branches, and leaves

My branch of the family tree is the one that grew north. The gnarled trunk sits squarely in Richmond, VA, but I never actually lived there–my grandparents and plenty of other kin inhabited that city of laburnum- and redbud-lined streets, though, so I spent a good slice of my childhood visiting. I could almost–not quite–call it my own if I really wanted to. But my parents had already gotten out of dodge in the late ‘60’s and settled in Alexandria–which to many “real” Virginians doesn’t count–and then my sister and I took the theme a step further and moved way the hell up to New York. This migration was, I suspect, somehow predestined, as it set off barely a ripple and had already begun with my folks, anyway, and with the purposeful shedding of my southern accent, inherited from them but conspicuous enough where I grew up to require ditching. I haven’t been back to Richmond in years, not since the last of my greats and grands departed this earth, but there are other places I can go to get my southern fix–as I did these past weeks. Specifically, I'm thinking of the River, down near Deltaville, VA. Or the Rivah, I would say if speaking in an old-timer’s Tidewater tongue.


I drive back once a year or so, and the flavor and sights always roll over me the same. The neverending haul, the decaying farmhouses and lanes bearing names like “Bob’s Hole” and “Nohead Bottom” flying by. Toward the end, churches seem to outnumber houses, and if you drive all the way out to Stingray Point, marinas beat out churches. Then my family's house, the one my grandfather built the year after I was born. You can still find the wooden hat rack–the one with your choice of straw, floppy floral, or mock captains’ caps. There, in the sleeping loft, is the box of Marlboro dominoes we used to line up and click together in courses. Visit the powder room, and you'll still be greeted by that same hot orange sink and the loud, blue-and-green striped wallpaper, proud survivors of the 70’s and numerous redecorations. And in the garage, a wall of cast iron skillets of all sizes–hanging, naturally, alongside soldier-straight fishing rods and power tools.

These, of course, bring me to the food memories, which are abundant and greasy. Fluffy spoon bread. Spot (a.k.a. croaker), the first fish I ever hooked, whisked straight out of the water and fried in butter for breakfast. Collards gifted from friends' gardens to my grandmother (who once, notoriously, washed heaps of them in the neighbors’ bathtub during a well outage), stewed til they didn’t have a prayer against even a baby's gums. A bushel of blue crabs spread out and picked atop yesterday’s paper–I learned that art by the age of six. Oh, and the fried seafood orgy at the local all-you-can eat buffet, lurid with heat lamps and crammed with the largest people you ever saw together in one room. That’s where I got introduced to oysters, though you could hardly call them that after the insults they had endured. Maybe they were a good place to start, those crunchy, batter-heavy pebbles, indistinguishable (except in size) from the hush puppies offered next to them. Now I’ll eat an oyster any way it's served: slurped raw, tempura-ed, or chowdered. Or, in a recent favorite twist, grilled on the half shell outdoors, preferably overlooking the waters in which they fattened. 
I adore going back, but I always leave with the feeling that I can never really go back. For one thing, a few key players have left the game. For another, I can never again be the urchin tracking sand through the house–because now I'm the grown-up chasing behind with the broom. I watch as my daughters dye Easter eggs and run down the great hill, across the sand and into the shallows (which they did, thanks to the April heat wave). They could easily stand in for my sister and me at their age, but I’m looking at us through my own, adult eyes. It's eerie, gratifying, and oddly circular all at once.

And we’re making our own grown-up food memories now, because that's what it's all about. The rockfish (striped bass) have rebounded and taste delicious any way you cook them. We've enjoyed some epic riverside feasts with cousins. Always there's wine, because it flows enthusiastically when my old man's on the scene and seems to taste better with a briny wind blowing off the Chesapeake. And last year, to our delight, we discovered morels sprouting in the poplar stand behind the house; you really can't beat just-picked morels sauteed in a little brown butter. Unfortunately, Easter fell too early and dry this year to bring them up yet, but I’ll be back for them and the oysters and all the other pleasures…that's the fun of having feet in two worlds. 

Oysters Grilled on the Half Shell 
Years back, at a wedding in Alabama, my father cajoled this recipe out of the cooks working a huge outdoor wood-fired oyster roasting station. You can find out how to rig your own on page 414 of The Lee Bros. Southern Cookbook, or you can just use a grill. Burn natural wood charcoal or throw on a handful of soaked wood chips for maximum flavor.  

Ingredients:
  • 1 dozen oysters, shucked, oysters and their liquor left on the half shell
  • 4 tablespoons unsalted butter
  • garlic salt
  • onion salt
  • (or, substitute 2 pressed or minced garlic cloves plus a pinch of sea salt for garlic and onion salts) 
  • Fresh lemon juice–about 2 tablespoons
  • A couple "throws" of Worcestershire sauce
  • Freshly ground pepper


Instructions:
Preheat grill to medium-high. Throw soaked wood chips on the fire if using; just make sure fire doesn't reach up to grates. Melt butter and stir in other ingredients to taste. Follow your taste buds, but be careful with the onion/garlic salts if using, since oysters already contain plenty of salt on their own. Ditto with the Worcestershire–it's strong. Arrange oysters in their shells on grill and drizzle with plenty of the butter mixture. Grill for 5 minutes or so, lowering lid for a minute or two to hasten cooking, and remove when oysters are opaque and hot (times will vary). Serve with additional lemon wedges or hot sauce, if desired. Use bread to mop up the sauce left in the shells.

1 comment:

  1. your stories of your childhood are my fave!

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